When ever there is yard work to be done, we like to do it as a family. Our 15 month old son plays in the yard while we work and occasionally likes to help. He will carry little twigs to the branch pile and toss in a few leaves into the bag. We praise him each time, which makes him want to do more. It’s super cute, but I also realized how much children want to contribute to the family. .
Children need chores. Helping out around the house teaches family responsibility. It gives your child a sense of accomplishment and pride and helps them learn practical skills. Contributing to the household also helps your child feel important, like one of the “team”.
The earlier the chore habit begins, the more readily your child comes to think of it as just another part of family life. Most early-elementary-age kids are enthusiastic about pitching in — at least at first. They may need gentle prompts and reminders to keep routine chores going.
Pick tasks that are appropriate to your child’s age.
Toddlers: Choose simple jobs/tasks for toddlers.
- Putting laundry in a hamper
- Putting toys back into designated bins *Tip: Put a picture of a car and the word on the bin cars go into.
- Put their toothbrush back into the holder
- Put their plate/bowl and utensil into the sink (with your help picking them up)
Toddlers want to be just like Mom and Dad, so capitalize on your power as a role model and let your child work alongside you as an assistant. Hand him a sponge while you’re cleaning the kitchen and let him wipe off the table. You’ll find him quite willing — even thrilled — to be called on to help.
When your toddler first tries a task on his own, be patient. Jumping in too quickly to lend a hand gives him the message that you don’t think he’s capable. Offer tons of praise to boost their confidence.
At 5 and 6, your child should be able to:
- Keep her own room tidy
- Make the bed
- Set the table
- Put clothes away into drawers
- Match socks
- Feed and water pets
- Put dishes in sink
- Empty smaller wastebaskets
At 7 and 8, your child should be able to:
- Take out garbage
- Empty the dishwasher
- Help with yard work
- Clear off the table after meals
- Clean sinks and toilet
- Carry in groceries
- Entertain a younger sibling for brief periods
There are several templates for chore charts online. Decide what is best for your family. Remember to always praise your child(ren) and tell them how much they are helping.
